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Carers are those in a position to lend support – spouses, parents, brothers or sisters, friends, work colleagues, grandparents or other relatives. Often the person does not seek to be a “carer”, but their relationship and concern for the individual places them in this role.
Many studies have demonstrated that the behaviour of individuals with traumatic brain injury (TBI) predicts the emotional adjustment of their caregivers.
At the risk of stating the obvious, caring for a person with challenging behaviour is more likely to result in emotional problems for the carer than is caring for someone who does not exhibit challenging behaviour.
The most common emotional problem encountered by carers is depression.
A study by Robert Cummins of the school of psychology at
The study, based on the responses of 3,750 carers to a detailed questionnaire, showed 56 per cent would be classified as moderately depressed compared with 6 per cent of the general population.
Almost 40 per cent of the carers were estimated to fall in the "severe" to "extremely severe" range of depression. The average carer also experienced moderate levels of stress.
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While the term "depression" is commonly used to describe a temporary decreased mood when one "feels blue", clinical depression is a serious illness that involves the body, mood, and thoughts and that cannot simply be willed or wished away. It is often a disabling disease that affects a person's work, family and school life, sleeping and eating habits, general health and ability to enjoy life.
Preventing depression is often as simple as being aware of your own situation and accepting your own limitations.
Caring for a person with an ABI is difficult, particularly if they exhibit challenging behaviours. It is not just possible that this may lead to emotional problems including depression; it is quite likely, especially if the carer ignores their own needs and focuses solely on the needs of their loved one.
Perhaps the single most important means of preventing depression in carers is respite.
Respite is a vital part of maintaining your health and sanity. Use the following checklist to see if you are doing what you need to look after yourself. Do you:
Looking after yourself is vital if you are to remain as effective a carer as you can be.
Sometimes however, despite the best efforts, carers may start to show signs of clinical depression such as:
If you are experiencing these sorts of symptoms then it is important that you speak to your GP about it as soon as possible. Depression does not just go away and early treatment is much more effective than delayed treatment.
Treatment for depression can be medication, talking therapies or a combination of both.
Depressive disorders make one feel exhausted, worthless, helpless, and hopeless. Such negative thoughts and feelings make some people feel like giving up. It is important to realize that these negative views are part of the depression and typically do not accurately reflect the actual circumstances. Negative thinking fades as treatment begins to take effect. In the meantime:
Remember that respite is not just for you. Respite care is in the best interest of the person you are caring for too.
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